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    Nov062011

    Once A Cheater Always A Cheater?

    Dear Lennie, My ex and I are still pretty good friends. We have been friends for forever and dated for 3 years. He cheated on me, a lot, so obviously things didn't work out, but we still hang out from time to time. Anyway, every time he sees me he tries to get into my pants. Well, long story short we ended up sleeping together and a week later I found out he has been dating some chick for about 3 months and she just found out she is pregnant with his baby. I don't know what to do. Do I warn this chick? Or just let it go and cut all ties with him and those people?

    Dear Cheated, First, let me say "ouch" that's gotta sting double hard! I think you have learned your lesson and won't allow yourself to be used and hurt by a cheater like this again. As for the other woman, if you caution her you will just come across like the scorned ex-girlfriend and will likely create more drama for yourself. You don't owe her anything, and she will learn her lesson in due time. Just be thankful you are not in her position, cut all ties, take the high road and move on. 

    Reader Comments (1)

    What I don't get is how she can even ask this question! I mean lust is one thing and accept it for what it is. But common sense is another. When she learns to separate the two, THEN she should think about getting back into the dating world. SHE created her own drama by staying friends with the cheater and then sleeping with him. Grow the hell

    November 6, 2011 | Unregistered CommenterJay

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