Boyfriend Gone Wild: Dear Lennie, my boyfriend keeps contacting my guy Facebook friends and telling them I'm in a relationship. He's totally jealous and it's totally embarrassing. He also posts stuff about our relationship, just to prove to others how serious we are. It's not cool. What should I do?
Dear BGW, here's an idea: get a new boyfriend. Seriously, I think your boyfriend is a borderline stalker. This is aggressive, controlling behavior and not acceptable in a significant other. It's also an invasion of your privacy. He sounds insecure and immature. You should firmly tell him that he's crossing the line and if he does not change his behavior then I would start by blocking him from your Facebook account and seriously consider doing an about face with your relationship and trading him in for a more confident man. It's clear your boyfriend is a boy, but I'm not convinced he is a friend.