What do I wear on a first date with someone I met online? If we are just getting drinks/coffee, I don’t want to look like I’m trying to hard but at the same time, I want to look good. Any tips?
Whether you met online or not, you should wear something attractive, well put together, and a little conservative on a first date. If it's coffee, I would not show up in your workout clothes. Wear a nice pair of jeans with a cute top. Nothing revealing. If it's drinks, the same attire will work. You should put in a little effort to show that you care about your looks, but don't go over the top with makeup or wear something too provocative. That will just send the wrong signals. If he likes you when you are looking simple and natural, he will love the glammed up, sex-kitten version too. Make sure he's worth the effort and someone you want to take to that more flirtatious level before sharing that side of your personality and sexuality.