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    What To Wear?

    What do I wear on a first date with someone I met online? If we are just getting drinks/coffee, I don’t want to look like I’m trying to hard but at the same time, I want to look good. Any tips?

    Whether you met online or not, you should wear something attractive, well put together, and a little conservative on a first date. If it's coffee, I would not show up in your workout clothes. Wear a nice pair of jeans with a cute top. Nothing revealing. If it's drinks, the same attire will work. You should put in a little effort to show that you care about your looks, but don't go over the top with makeup or wear something too provocative. That will just send the wrong signals. If he likes you when you are looking simple and natural, he will love the glammed up, sex-kitten version too. Make sure he's worth the effort and someone you want to take to that more flirtatious level before sharing that side of your personality and sexuality.


    Reader Comments (3)

    You're right on girl. I lived in LA a few years and the girls all dress like tramps 24/7 and the men treat them as such.

    May 17, 2011 | Unregistered CommenterSleepless_in_Toronto

    I would agree that you can't go wrong with casual and not too provocative. I once met a guy for a first date wearing jeans, a cute top and suede wedges. I consider my wedges a great walking shoe since I lived in DC and walked everywhere. The guy just kept staring at my shoes. I could tell he didn't like my choice. We went on a second date and he commented that I wear alot of wedges. I found out he liked stilettos and short shorts. I told him I would wear the shoes if he wore the shorts.

    If a guy is going to judge me by my shoes (I know women are really guilty of judging men by their shoes), he's not for me. Sexy doesn't just come in a pair of stilettos.

    May 17, 2011 | Unregistered CommenterTamera

    Great comment, Tamera. Commenting on you wearing wedges instead of stilettos on a second date? He might as well have said he wants you in a corset and garters :) How about a little decorum. Some men don't seem to have any patience to unwrap the present. They want it all on the first date. I had one guy on twitter say a gal should show up in Lululemon Athletica to show off her body. Shows you the average male mentality. They just want to see what the body looks like and aren't interested in the mind.

    May 18, 2011 | Registered CommenterLennie Ross

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