What should a guy do when a girl over-pursues you?
Well, normally what men seem to do is just ignore the woman and not return her calls or texts. But that’s a rather rude way to tell someone to back off. If you really feel that she’s being overly aggressive in pursuing you and you’re not interested in dating her, then the best thing to do is to be honest and direct with her. Tell her point blank that while you are flattered by her interest, you’re just not feeling the same chemistry. She may get upset by this, but in the long run she will thank you (maybe not to your face, but in spirit), because you will have saved her from greater embarrassment of being that desperate woman who chases a man. We’ve all been there. It ain’t pretty.