Hey Lennie, I went on a first date with a guy and it was great. He was handsome, charming, picked up the tab, dropped me off, no creepy factor, and so on. We mentioned that we would try to meet again for lunch the next week, but I never heard from him. I called once and texted a few times, but never heard from him! I want to see him again. Should I contact him again or will I look desperate? -Sleepless In Los Angeles
It's like the movie 'He's Just Not That Into You'. I wish I could tell you otherwise. Perhaps the date didn't go as well as you thought, maybe he sensed some kind of deal breaker. Could be that he's just a flake after all, or he's playing the field. Anymore contact will just make you look and feel desperate and won't likely yield positive results. Time to move on, you deserve better!