A few weeks ago, I told you why hitting on women at the gym is not a great idea. But, I know that if you see this amazing girl at the gym and you just have to approach here, you’re going to do what you’re going to do. At least let me help you by sharing four tips on how to tactfully approach a woman at the gym.
1. The Slow Build: Even though you may have been eying her for weeks, she may not have noticed you. So take your time approaching her. Flirting with eye contact and the occasional hello with her will give you an indication as to whether she’s interested. You do not want to rush this process, because you’ll come off aggressive and she may instinctually put her guard up.
2. Avoid The Sleaze, Please: Skip the cheesy lines like “Do you come here often?” and never make comments on her body. No leering (especially while she’s stretching), no stalking, and only approach one girl at the gym at a time.
3. Know When To Quit: If she is showing no interest or is intentionally avoiding you, you might want to take that as a sign that she’s not interested. Time to move on to the next hottest girl at the gym.
4. When & How To Seal The Deal: When it feels right, when she's showing some interest, then is it time for you to make your move. But, it's important you ask her out the right way, something casual, a smoothie or coffee, sometime after a work out. Giving her advance notice is a good idea.
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